Eyes Wide Open:
A Second Manifesto for the 21st Century
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A full three decades ago, I learned something in my class on infant psychology at a major university. The professor was great—
Ardent and intelligent, trained at the University of Minnesota Child Development Center, one of the most prestigious university spots in the academic world of child development. He was actively involved in researching infant life and experience. I learned that newborns could not focus their eyes for a while after birth, a couple of days more or less. I accepted this along with all kinds of other valuable information in my quest to understand life, my life in particular.

That was 1974. Twelve years later, on August 31, 1986, I learned that my newborn son was intensely focused immediately upon entry from his mother's womb into the world of air—eyes wide open, intense, and appearing angry after a very difficult struggle to get his big head through mother's cervix. I, too, was wide open after one of the most awesome peak experiences of my life.

Eighteen years later, in 2004, I met one of my teachers for the first time, and heard a sentence that gave me a clear way to think about this business of focusing infants and other "things I learned at school." Thomas Szasz is the finest master of language and logic that I have met, particularly excelling in the art of aphorism. This day I listened to him speak on his chosen vocation, articulating the truth about psychiatry and our so-called mental health system.  Dr. Szasz quoted American humorist Josh Billings' quip that, "The problem is not that people don't know anything, it's that they know so many things that ain't so!" I have later learned from Leonard Roy Frank, editor of Random House Webster's Quotationary, that this aphorism more likely came from Artemus Ward, who said that, "It's not so much what folks don't know that causes problems, it's what they do know that ain't so."

This essay is an effort to answer the question of how people know so much that ain't so, and live in denial about what is. It is also a sequel to my first manifesto, written 3 years ago as a chapter in my book, True Nature and Great Misunderstandings, titled "A 21st Century Manifesto for Parenting" (http://www.wildestcolts.com/parenting/manifesto.html). The piece goes into some detail about our distressed society, and exhorts parents to protect their children from various traumas, such as unnecessary prenatal trauma, unnecessary birth trauma, circumcision, in-arms deprivation unnecessary immunizations, toxic and unhealthy foods separation from nature TV and video, computers a sedentary lifestyle compulsive busyness, sleep deprivation, adultism, emotional suppression, condescension chronic hopelessness, competition, militarism, unnecessary medical interventions, all psychiatric drugs, compulsory factory schooling, illiteracy, labels such as learning disabled (LD) and attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), a flawed view of human nature,  and a parent unwilling to face their own traumas.

This sequel goes a step further, confronting the fact that however much we are able to protect our individual children from harm, it cannot be enough to ensure that they will have a future. Our world is in peril. Life forms are rapidly being extinguished, the environment is in grave danger of complete collapse, and so is the economy. Countless billions of our own human species are already suffering, and continuation of "our civilization's "business as usual" can only have one outcome, and it is an ugly one. Sadly, it is not enough to protect our own children. Unless we demand and create significant change at the level of our civilization, even our own loved and privileged children, and most definitely our children's children's children, will likely not survive at all. Certainly, they will experience a world of overwhelming toxicity and underwhelming biodiversity.  The details to back up this sentence are readily available for those with eyes to see in abundant scientific descriptions. This essay explores the psychology of denial and expresses a call to action on behalf of all our children and ourselves.

On Seeing

I had another great teacher for a few years. His name was Russell Nees, and he was a remarkable man—a small town Texas minister for decades with an active and alive congregation, moving Christianity forward from fundamentalism to a living experience that God is love, and let your yea mean yes and your nay mean no, and other simple teachings of how to live a conscious life. In his later years, after his wife had died of cancer, Russell was part of a very small group that founded the Optimal Health Center, a raw food and juice fasting health spa, outside Austin, Texas. One of Russell's greatest pleasures in life was to find what he called white crows, the notion being that one white crow disproved the notion that all crows are black. One person who could see at a distance, for example, or read the history of a place from a rock, showed that seeing was not strictly a function of our physical visual sensory apparatus, operating in present time.

Why do you think it was taught that infants couldn't focus? Was my son, Eric, a white crow?
He was to me, for sure, but I think it had more to do with the fact that the science of child developmental psychology was seriously establishing itself about the time I was born, which was 1952. Part of that scientific process was to establish norms. Child developmentalists are very big on defining average, expected trends in growth and manifestation of body, mind and behavior. The upside of this basic notion is that we are encouraged not to have unrealistic expectations for our children, as in not expecting a baby to understand the logic of conservation of energy. The downside is reflected in rigid age graded segregation and the ubiquitous labeling of children as developmentally delayed and learning disabled because they do not read by age 6.

There is another huge problem with establishment of norms. Simply put, it is that normal is not necessarily natural. During the Inquisition, it was normal to persecute women because "everyone knew" (at least everyone in power) that they were heretics. In Nazi Germany, it was normal to persecute Jews because "everyone knew" they were an inferior race. Today, it is normal for 15-20% of our population to take psychotropic drugs because "everyone knows" ADHD children need stimulant drugs, and depression is a chemical imbalance requiring serotonergic antidepressants. How did it get to be normal for 1 out of 5 people to suffer from a biological or genetic defect that causes them to be failures in social adjustment?  Someone has observed children and decided that the norm is to sit quietly and do your homework, and that to do otherwise is abnormal. The question of why this "abnormal" behavior is interpreted as a biological defect is another vitally important subject and which many writers, including myself in all my books, cover in depth. Pertinent here, though, is to notice where the norm of sitting quietly and doing homework was established—in the public school classroom! If you have already considered, perhaps with the tutelage of the best current teacher on the subject, John Taylor Gatto, that the design of our educational system is highly oppressive and violating of children's true natures, then you know that these norms are invalid, that they do not reflect the natural development of children, but instead reflect something about the process of adjustment (or not) to suppression.

Do you see the underlying principle here? Norms, whether scientific or simply the values and beliefs that we all hold as a result of what we have learned and therefore think we know, are developed in a context—a certain time, place and social structure or design. The teaching here might be as follows:

         Before using norms to make conclusions or decide about actions, best find out all you can about the development of those norms---the time and place of their manufacture, the design of the environment in which observations are made, the various inputs into the lives of those for whom norms are being developed, and perhaps most importantly the assumptions, goals and intentions of the environmental designers.

Before you read on, take a minute and apply these principles to the question of why infants being able to focus and Eric's value as a white crow. What do you know about the time and place of childbirth in 1952 in the United States? What was its design? What were the various inputs into a newborn's life? What were the assumptions, goals and intentions of the designers of the environment of childbirth in 1952 in the United States?

Here are a few related teachings:

  • Norms function as expectations and we tend to accept them as given conditions of our world.
  • Natural and normal are very different concepts. In distressed societies, they may rarely coincide.
  • What we assume to be normal very often reveals little about what is natural.
  • Our norms generally tell us more about our structures than they do about our natures.
  • What we think we know is often false.

Once you have the data, the answer is very simple. Common practices of childbirth in 1952 were horrific. The mothers were generally on drugs. My mother was totally unconscious from general anesthesia; I was on drugs when I was born. It was also common practice to inject a very painful and vision blurring solution into the newborn's eyes immediately after birth. The rest of the picture is equally harsh and upsetting. It is easy to see why infant developmental norms in general would be unnatural, and specifically why infants could not focus.

The bigger teaching:

  • Our true nature is eyes wide open.
  • Another vital truth to understand:
  • We are enormously vulnerable to conditioning.

Most life forms have a very short dependency period, fully mature within hours or days or weeks or at most, as in large mammals, 2 or 3 years. Humans, on the other hand, take at least until age 25 or so to fully develop on just a physical level. The brain continues to grow and develop throughout adolescence and into young adulthood. While it is not true, as classical behaviorism states, that we are a blank slate, it is true that we are enormously plastic, enormously dependent and vulnerable, especially during our younger years, and enormously vulnerable to the effects of conditioning. In fact, our psychological self is not inborn, but develops via the process of internalizing images and experiences that originally occur in our outer lives. Though fortunately limited by our inherent natural tendencies, to a large extent we psychologically become a faithful recording of our environment. This is the basis of much modern psychological theory, but it is not a new idea, and is best understood in classic poems such as this one by Dorothy Lawe Holt:

If A Child


If a Child If a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn.
If a child lives with hostility, he learns to fight.
If a child lives with ridicule, he learns to be shy.
If a child lives with fear, he learns to be apprehensive.
If a child lives with shame, he learns to feel guilty.
But
If a child lives with tolerance, he learns to be patient.
If a child lives with encouragement, he learns to be confident.
If a child lives with acceptance, he learns to love.
If a child lives with approval, he learns to like himself.
If a child lives with recognition, he learns it is good to have a goal.
If a child lives with honesty, he learns what truth is.
If a child lives with fairness, he learns justice.
If a child lives with security, he learns to have faith in himself and those about him.
If a child lives with friendliness, he learns the world is a nice place in which to live, to love and be loved.

 

It is actually much easier to facilitate the loving qualities because that is our natural bent. It takes more of a systematic process of hurting and depriving children to install hurtful and oppressive patterns. Once installed, though, it is relatively easy to trigger those patterns and keep them activated. The primary dynamic is really very simple. It is to make the being afraid, making sure she knows that her survival depends on avoiding the wrath or abandonment of the person on whom her life depends. The end result is very simple:  AUTHORITY = TERROR.  The ideal in a culture such as ours that frowns on overt harsh abuse and cowering, whimpering dependents, is to make a child (or citizen) not so fearful that they utterly collapse and cringe, but just fearful enough that they do alright, but are very "respectful" and OBEDIENT to their elders or other authorities. Of course, in our own United States society, it has become increasingly acceptable to collapse and cringe because the medical psychiatric priesthood has afforded a safe explanation for such pathetic behavior. Do you know what I am talking about here? Think for a moment. What is the usual dynamic when a child or adult exhibits fear, mild or intense? Think about how fear manifests. In extreme, it involves cringing, tightening, going cold, shaking, trembling, running, screaming, shutting down, agitation, panic, racing thoughts, frequent urination, stress diarrhea, heart racing, elevated blood pressure, insomnia, etc.  Milder forms include worry, restlessness, tension, and on and on.

Let me clarify using the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of the American Psychiatric Association.

  • ADHD—difficulty sustaining attention, forgetful, fidgeting, squirming, "driven by a motor."
  • Bipolar Disorder—pressure to keep talking, thoughts are racing, psychomotor agitation.
  • Anxiety Disorder—excessive worry, inability to relax.
  • Panic Disorder—trembling, shaking, fear of…whatever.

I call this the awesome magic trick of so-called biological psychiatry. Despite complete lack of objective proof that any problem routinely seen by psychiatrist is caused by an existing physical or chemical abnormality, biopsychiatry has transformed expressions of mood and behavior into medical illnesses, allegedly caused by biological or genetic defects, and treatable by psychotropic drugs or electroshock. All responsibility is avoided, along with any questions about relational dynamics and social justice issues. In legal terms, all are afforded the protection of "plausible deniability."

A Primer on Conditioning

Installing patterns of fear and more or less blind obedience, though a lot more trouble than supporting our natural bent toward self-determination with eyes wide open, is not all that hard. John Taylor Gatto (2001) does perhaps the best job laying out how this works in our educational system, modeled after a Prussian (German) design that was found effective in creating properly obedient soldiers and factory workers.

Consider the following two assertions.

Our nature is eyes wide open, brilliantly intelligent, intensely relational in a loving way, and energetically zestful, and inclined toward loving.

Western Civilization, especially as embodied in the current United States of America, is the most destructive civilization in the history of the world. 

If you agree with the first statement, then, like me, you try to figure out how it happened that so many of us act in such stupid and mean-spirited ways that untold unnecessary suffering prevails, and the very future of our existence on this planet is in peril.  If you disagree, then you can ascribe such horrors to human nature, likely including the ubiquitous presence of biopsychiatric defects in millions of mentally ill people.

If you agree with the second, you try even harder to understand, and you are denied the luxury of the notion that "yes it is bad, but at least our country is a hopeful beacon of light in a dark world." Instead, the task of self- scrutiny and self-inquiry becomes especially demanding and intense.  If you disagree that the United States embodies the most destructive civilization in history, so be it. Perhaps you can agree that it is very destructive. If not, I would encourage you to at least take notice of the reactions that such a statement evokes inside of you. Suffice it to say that billions are suffering unnecessarily. That the inequalities are becoming more and more glairing all the time, that myriad life forms are rapidly being extinguished, that our economic environment is dangerously shaky, and our natural web of existence in grievous peril. These are facts to those with eyes to see. A fundamentalist might see them and attest to their inevitability as prophesied. Count me among those who see the consequences of human choice and action.

My purpose just now is simply to say that, because of our enormous vulnerability to conditioning, it is very possible to override and distort our natural intelligent and loving tendencies, and create patterns in people that are based in fear and denial, to move people from eyes wide open to eyes tightly shut. The best writer I know on this process is Derrick Jensen, in his books, A Language Older Than Words, and The Culture of Make Believe.

From Eyes Wide Open to A Culture of Denial: An Awful transmutation

As noted above, it is relatively easy to make children fearful and inclined to obedience. There is a great deal of writing on the psychological dynamics of conditioning children, including all my own books. The interested reader may refer to these sources. Just now, I want to point out one particular effect, reflected in the following teaching:

         We see the world not as it is, but as we are.

Perception seems to duplicate what is out there as when we all see a chair or bird or whatever. That is only the very surface of things, however, and even then, it is very unreliable, as evidenced for example in eyewitness criminal testimony. It is even worse for entirely subjective phenomenon like so-called mental illness. There is a provocative movie out now called "What the Bleep," which shows interviews of quantum physicists and other consciousness researchers, and reveals some of the dilemmas involved in the perceptual process. For example, an inner image evokes the same physiological and sensory dynamics as an outer image; simply imagining something creates a similar effect to actually seeing it. Further, we are often unable to see something for which we have no inner category or reference point. My introductory psychology textbook tells the story of pygmy man named Kenge who is with a white anthropologist who points out a creature way out across a large open space. Kenge sees an insect, and then the anthropologist drives him toward the insect, which gets increasingly larger as Kenge shows evidence of building fear and confusion. Eventually he recognizes a buffalo, and is awed that the insect tuned into a buffalo. The text explains that Kenge lived his whole life in a jungle where there were no large open distances and therefore his brain and visual apparatus had not learned to compensate for distance the way one does when experienced with open spaces. In the recent movie, "What the Bleep," a story is told that when Columbus first landed in the West Indies, the native Arawak Indians met the men who came ashore, but literally could not see the ships. Eventually they were able to after one man figured it out and "saw" the ships. The idea was that they had no category, no inner schema, and therefore could not configure the perception. Whether or not this story has a factual basis, it reveals a deep truth that we witness all the time.

         We tend not to see things that we have not experienced, or do not expect.

Have you ever walked with someone who knows all about the plant or animal life in a given area? Have you had the experience of having pointed out to you the presence of some creature that you literally could not see? My sister was walking with a guide in the Costa Rican jungle, and despite warnings about the deadly vipers, she came within a hair of putting her hand on one that she did not "see," could not see." Her guide could see all kinds of things in the forest that the tourists could not. Perhaps you have heard that Eskimos have 20 words for r snow. How much differentiation do you make between different types of snowflakes? Do you "see" the different types? How often do we overlook the unexpected? How often do we overlook or dismiss the island of clarity in a "schizophrenic psychotic?" 

Conversely,

         We tend to see things that we expect or need to see, even when they are not there.

Consider Daniel Rosenhan's (1973) famous experiment in which 8 different people (all totally sane "pseudo-patients," mostly professional people) gained secret admission to different mental hospitals by falsely complaining that they had been hearing voices over the past 3 weeks mentioning the words "empty," "hollow," and "thud." No other psychological abnormalities were related or discovered in the psychological intake exams. All eight pseudo-patients were admitted, all as "schizophrenic," except for one "manic-depressive."

After gaining admission, each person acted totally sane, and each said that the voices had disappeared. Each patient asked frequently about discharge plans. The length of hospitalizations ranged from 7 to 52 days (averaging 19 days). Attendants only came outside the "cage" 11.5 times per shift. Psychiatrists rarely interacted meaningfully with the pseudo-patients. Discharge diagnoses were all "schizophrenia, in remission." Most of the other "real" patients knew for certain that the pseudo-patients were faking, but none of the professional staff suspected that reality.

A follow-up study was then done in a research and teaching hospital whose staff had heard about the previous study. The staff was warned that in the next 3 months there would be one or more pseudo-patients attempting to be admitted to their hospital. Importantly, no actual pseudo-patients even attempted admission.

Among the 193 patients admitted for psychiatric treatment during this 3-month period, 41 genuine patients were suspected, with high confidence, of being pseudo-patients by at least one member of the staffs.  23 were considered suspect by a psychiatrist. Both a psychiatrist and one other staff member suspected 19.

This experiment clearly shows the effect of beliefs on perception and action. Classic educational research has revealed how one can actually affect others through inner beliefs and attitudes. This is often called the self-fulfilling prophecy. Otherwise known as the Pygmalion effect, it might better be called the other-fulfilling prophecy.

         Others tend to live up (or down) to the images we hold for them,

 Have you heard of the Pygmalion effect? The name comes from George Bernard Shaw's play "Pygmalion," in which Professor Henry Higgins claims he can take a Cockney flower girl and pass her off as a Duchess. He succeeds via rigorous retraining, which most important element has to do with the effect of altered images and expectations. The girl, Eliza Doolittle points out in a comment to her trainee, Higgins' friend Pickering, that anyone can learn the dress and manner, but that "the difference between a lady and a flower girl is not in how she behaves but in how she is treated. I shall always be a flower girl to Professor Higgins, because he treats me as a flower girl, and always will, but I know I can be a lady to you because you always treat me as a lady, and always will."

There has been considerable educational research showing that teacher expectations have a dramatic effect on student learning and performance. (http://www.ncrel.org/sdrs/areas/issues/educatrs/leadrshp/le0bam.htm.)  As an example, Rosenthal and Jacobson (1968) administered IQ tests to children aged six to twelve years, all drawn from the same school. The children were then assigned to an experimental or control group. When teachers were told that the children in the experimental group were "high achievers", these children showed significant IQ gains over the course of one year, despite allocation to group having been in fact random. Business consultants tend to best summarize the process:

  • We from certain expectations of people and events.
  • We communicate those expectations with certain cues.
  • People tend to respond to these cues by adjusting their behavior to match.

4) The result is that the original expectations come true. (http://www.accel-team.com/pygmalion/prophecy_01.html)

These four points clearly convey the interactional dynamic. However, I want to more deeply emphasize a related point, which is that our inner images and expectations not only affect what we communicate; as in the above stories of Kenge and the Arawak Indians, they actually tend to determine what we see and therefore can communicate.

         We tend not to see that which we need not to see, even when it is there, because it threatens our conditioned beliefs and values.

Consider the following excerpt from an interview of David Edwards, the author of Burning All Illusions, by Derrick Jensen:

"There's an even more powerful internal force at work, illustrated by a very interesting study done in the 1960s. A man by the name of Lester Luborsky used a special camera to track the eye movements of people who were asked to look at a set of pictures, three of which involved sexual images. One, for example, showed a woman's breast, beyond which could be seen a man reading a newspaper. The results were amazing. Many viewers were able to avoid letting their gaze stray even once to the sexually suggestive parts of the pictures, and later, when asked to describe the content of the pictures, they remembered little or nothing suggestive about them. Some people couldn't even recall having seen those three pictures at all.

What interests me is that, in order to avoid looking at the objectionable parts of the pictures, those people had to know in some part of their minds what the picture contained so that they could know to avoid it. In other words, when the mind detects something offensive or threatening to our worldview, it somehow deflects our awareness. This avoidance system is incredibly efficient. We know exactly where not to look." (SUN magazine, June 2000)

The best explanation I know for this dynamic is that we humans have a natural self-protective tendency to shield ourselves from the memory and effects of hurtful or threatening experiences. Such protection easily becomes convenient as we justify our ways and attitudes, and rationalize our fears, doubts, hesitancies and uncertainties. This may be best described by people like psychiatrist Alice Miller, in describing the cycle of child abuse, where an abused child internalizes that abuse, then represses it in order to function without overwhelming feelings of hurt, fear and shame, only to have these very feelings restimulated years later as an adult in the face of his or her own children. As Miller says, "It is a tragic fact that parents beat their own children in order to escape the feelings stemming from how they were treated by their own parents."  In any event, the dynamics of denial are there, and huge numbers of our citizens blindly accept, allow, and promote the current inequities, injustices, and ravages of our existence on this planet. What may for each individual have been at one point a very necessary self-protective survival dynamic now becomes blind denial that lends to avoiding and perpetuating the destructive actions that endanger our existence. The age-old "Emperor Who Has No Clothes" lives this moment. Some people are able to see his nakedness and point it out, some see it and are too beaten down to say anything, and very many are in such apathy or absorbed short-term selfish interest that they care not to even look, or perhaps they see magnificent clothing where it does not exist. In any event, our children are in peril.

Denial, Oppression, and Claims to Virtue

We have briefly examined the mechanisms of denial. We have acknowledged its protective function, and suggested that such protection becomes counterproductive when it is locked in as a conditioned pattern unrelated to present time reality, a time bomb just waiting to be activated, a rigid ideology or attitude that brooks little contradiction. This divorce from present reality for the sake of defending internalized beliefs, ideas, and patterns means that defense of same becomes more important than the best interests or highest good of life. Such denial and defense of false selves is the major psychological force that drives cruelty, injustice, indifference and all forms of irrationality. It is the psychological engine of the systematic mistreatment that we call oppression, and the blatant disregard of all life forms that we see in world structures today.

A huge key in understanding the reality and dynamics of oppression is the concept of claims to virtue. It seems that every cruelty, every injustice, every disregard of the best interests of life has a claim to virtue. There is always some justification, some reason that this injustice, this destruction, this killing, this extinction, this war, this soul murder is not only necessary, but maybe even a good thing. Here are some examples that come to mind.

We have all heard the mantra called, "Better safe than sorry." As with all claims to virtue, this one has some truth in it—might be a better idea not to dive off that 40 foot cliff given you have not plumbed the depths of the water below. On the other hand, one of my daughter's summer vacation highlights was her leap off of that 40-foot cliff! The relevant point here is that the nature of life is uncertainty; without risk, we live in inertia and apathy. We choose to be safe and stay at home instead of asking for a date or starting a new project, or speaking out at the legislature, or exploring that wild zone. I was at a little conference last week, called "The Origins of Love and Violence." The featured speaker was Suzanne Arms, still going strong over 30 years after her breakthrough book, Immaculate Deception, started a social movement to reclaim the beautiful wonders of natural childbirth for mothers and babies from the clutches of technological control. The claim to virtue is "better safe than sorry," that birth is painful and difficult, and that we have all this great technology to make it safe.

Suzanne Arms describes the reality even today:

"Women continue to be denied access to alternatives to routine and standard approaches to birth that have no basis in scientific evidence and which dis-empower and hurt themselves and their babies. I watch with pain in my heart as the level of fear among childbearing women, birth professionals and young people grows and the public's passivity and numbness about birth deepens.

"I am deeply concerned that technology and aggressive medical management now dominate most births in the industrialized world and reshape birth in urban areas in much the rest of the world. Even in Greece, Mexico and the island of Bali, induced labor, drugs, episiotomies, vacuum extraction, cesarean, and the forced separation of babies from their mothers right after birth have become the norm, and hemorrhage, infection, birth trauma and bottle feeding follow." (www.birthingthefuture.com)

As with all efforts to sort out the conflicting views and approach the truth, one has to do some work, go beyond obvious sources which tend to parrot the mainstream beliefs, be willing to face our own possible false beliefs or illusions, and come to our own conclusions. I recommend Suzanne Arms' books and website as one source of data. My own reading and experience tells me it is true that home birth and midwives are generally safer than hospital birth, and that the pre and perinatal experience provides the foundation of our being. The premise of that conference, that the origins of love and violence, lie in the experiences of babies and others before, during and after birth, holds great truth. I received a pamphlet from Birthing The Future, which reads that "MOST of what happens to mothers and babies today—including common medical practices and exposure to environmental toxins—harms them or disrupts their development." Could this be true? If it is, then that is intense oppression of mothers and babies. Decide for yourself.

Here is another seemingly mundane example. How often do children hear "Be Careful!" In fact, is that not the second most ubiquitous mantra of our culture today? (First is "BUY something now.")  Terror alert. Terrorist. Child abductor. Job loss.  Be afraid. Fear. Fear. Fear.  Here is an excerpt on the subject from my book, The Wildest Colts Make The Best Horses.

There seems to be great confusion in our society about fear. We extol fearlessness, placing great value on the person (generally a man) who "knows no fear." At the same time, we tend to be very fearful and manifest this fear in how we treat our children. I challenge you to notice how often you say "Be careful" to your child. Think about it.

Jean Liedloff, in The Continuum Concept, gives a wonderful illustration of childrearing in a nature-based tribal society. The children are free to range the edges of steep cliffs and fire pits without concern. They are expected to learn awareness, not caution. In our own society, we teach our children to be afraid. Notice the mailings and late night TV spots depicting lost children. The impression is that children are in great danger of abduction; yet the actual number of abductions is very small and, in fact, parents who have been denied legal custody commit more than 90 percent of these so-called "abductions". The way mass media handles "News" in this country saturates us with fear. Sensationalist journalism takes a horrific incident from anywhere in the state, country or world and brings it into your home and into your mind. You feel as if these daily horrors were happening right next door and you were indeed living in an extremely dangerous neighborhood.

The claim to virtue is obvious; we all want to keep our children safe, and there are dangers. I mentioned some above in reference to my 21st Century Manifesto for Parenting. There are no guarantees. Could it be that our frequent admonishments to be careful actually suppress our children's awareness, natural curiosity and exploration by making them fearful and conveying an expectation of harm or failure? You decide, but check yourself out by considering the possibility of enthusiastically telling your daughter to "Take a Risk!" as she heads out the door today.

The New Intrusion Initiative

One other thing to watch for as she heads out the door, especially if she is going to school, or to a doctor's appointment, or anywhere that constitutes a physical health check or an interface with a state program. Have you heard of the President's New Freedom Commission? It was set up to make recommendations for our so-called mental health system. I and others are writing and speaking about the New Freedom recommendations, which call for universal mental health screening; for example, they want "access" to all 52 million children and 6 million adults in our public schools. They also want to make sure a child gets "screened for "mental illness" every time she gets a health checkup. Think about it. We have about 10 million school age children already on psychotropic drugs in this country. Does that sound like an access problem? The claim to virtue is that we need to find and care for these sick mentally ill children. The truth is that the New Freedom Commission is driven by the same forces that created the Texas Medication Algorithm Project (TMAP) here in Texas. This is a formula which calls for specific drugs for each psychiatric diagnosis, and it is mandated by the state mental health system, and it is being spread all over the country. Care to guess who is behind it? Cui bono? Who benefits? The obvious answer, once you know this game, is Big Pharma; the drug companies donated a lot of money to the state to develop this thing, and garnered massive guaranteed sales on their major drug profit points (see endnote 1).

New Freedom is doublespeak for New Intrusion; access means recruitment, screening means labeling means drugging, service means profit. At its roots, this is a very cynical move for control and profit. Its secondary fruit, after corporate profit, is damaged children.

Psychiatry and Militarism: A World in Peril

Our world is in peril. Do you see what I see? I see the so-called third world is in misery, the first world in fear and nonsense. Over one billion souls around the world live in slums, the "free" world is looking more and more like a police state. We live under a so-called Patriot Act, even as the planet is raped and decimated with clear cuts, poisoned air and water, nuclear proliferation and waste, etc. This "free" world is a military aggressor, over and over again.

Henry David Thoreau, during the time of slavery, said, "My outrage at my country spoils my walk!"
Are you like him or like the many citizens who either celebrate or at the very least support U.S. military aggression?
Are you completely ashamed and aghast at United States cruelty and atrocity, or like Senator James Inhofe of Oklahoma and other apologists? During the Senate investigations of the abuse of Iraqi prisoners at Abu Ghraib, Inhofe opined that "I'm probably not the only one up at this table that is more outraged by the outrage than we are by the treatment."  How is that for a claim to virtue? I am patriotic so I do not judge my country's actions.

Since we are confronting denial in psychiatry and in militarism, it behooves us to take a quick look at the link between these two major sources of oppression. Here is a present time link between the mental health system and the military. I quote BBC News correspondent Matthew Davis: "Authors of a report in the New England Journal of Medicine say that since late 2002, psychiatrists and psychologists have been part of a programme designed to increase fear and distress among prisoners as a means to getting intelligence." (6-24-05, http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/americas/4620073.stm) The concept is called "Biscuit Teams"—behavioral science consultation teams designed to assist interrogators in breaking down prisoners.

One result of the Iraq war, consistent with the history of all wars, is the return to the United States of a great number of psychiatric casualties, soldiers who suffer from what is now called Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. The April 20, 2005 edition of the Fort Hood Herald has an article by Joshua Cleveland on the PTSD experience among soldiers returning to Fort Hood. Particularly scary is the article's reference to a recent issue of the medical journal, Science, in which a certain "Mark Eisenberg and colleagues from the Weismann Institute of Science in Rehovot, Israel, reported that they are closer to selectively wiping out traumatic memories from a person's brain." A major effect of biopsychiatry is to absolve everyone from responsibility; rather than the hard task of confronting issues of community, and social and economic justice, hurt or disturbing individuals are labeled as biological or genetic defects, that is "mentally ill." These Israeli scientists are working on a goal of developing drugs to wipe out select memories, and Fort Hood is paying attention.  This is an acceptable alternative to confronting the social and economic factors that create and justify the horrors of unnecessary warfare, and accepting full responsibility for the wounded men. It is also a way of avoiding the awful responsibility for unnecessarily making killers of adolescent and young adult men. I recently heard investigative journalist Seymour Hersh on Amy Goodman's Democracy Now radio show. Hersh is famous for breaking the story of the My Lai massacre, and for his current work on Afghanistan and Iraq, including breaking the story of the Abu Ghraib tortures. On Goodman's show, Hersh shared that 35 years ago he had found the mother of one of the men who committed the My Lai massacre. The mother's words: "I gave them a good boy. And they sent me back a murderer." Last year, he found the mother of one of the Abu Ghraib soldiers, who found a CD of pictures from Abu Ghraib, pictures that in Hersh's words, "no mother should see." One was published in the New Yorker. (http://www.democracynow.org/article.pl?sid=05/01/26/1450204#transcript)

The history of Nazi Germany is frequently invoked as the prime example military policy driven by psychiatric belief. The principles of eugenics, or improvement of the species via genetic selection, justified the Holocaust. Today, in a less dramatic way than the concentration camps, the same principles justify the New Intrusion initiative, universal mental health screening, and the mass drugging of our nation's children. On October 4, 2004, the Texas House held a select committee hearing to explore the ubiquitous use of psychotropic drugs on foster children. Dr. Joseph Burkett, medical director for Tarrant County Mental Health Mental Retardation, justified the fact that a high percentage of these children were on several dangerous psychotropic drugs at once, with his testimony that, "A lot of these kids come from bad gene pools." (Mitch Mitchell, "MHMR official regrets 'gene pool' remarks," Fort Worth Star-Telegram, 11-3-04)

Speaking of our children, here is Christian Parenti, from his book, The Freedom," on the country's first year in Iraq,

I have seen several children in Baghdad with enlarged heads and huge veins bulging from their skulls and been told that this condition and other bizarre cancers and childhood diseases are linked to roughly 1,7000 tons of depleted uranium-tipped weaponry that the United States used on Iraq during both wars. The NGO Child Victims of War says that, "the number of Iraqi babies born with serious deformities has risen from 3.04 per thousand in 1991 to 22.19 per thousand in 2001. Babies born with Down Syndrome have increased nearly fivefold and there [has been] a rash of cases of previously little known eye problems." (p 57)

Seeing (or not) the Truth

The list of cruelties, injustices and irrationalities can go on and on, but the relevant point is that, as George Orwell once said, "To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle." As I write this sentence, the United States senate is apologizing to the country for persistently blocking anti-lynching legislation during that not so distant period of infamy. At the same time, the Senate unanimously supports more and more money and weapons and soldiers and death and destruction in a preemptive mass aggression in Iraq. Why is that? We know the shifting sands of the various claims to virtue, but why is it really. One answer, of course, is about present time power, oil and money. But why so difficult to see the truth? Orwell's statement does not seem so true for little ones?

Here are R.D. Laing's 3 rules, from The Politics of Experience, on how to live in a world of denial:

Rule A:  Don't.
Rule B: Rule A does not exist.
Rule C: Do not discuss the existence or non-existence of Rules A, B, or C.

Don't look at what we are doing and certainly don't question it. This is a free and democratic, peace-loving country. We are happy for you to see exactly what is going on in Iraq, and everything about our history and ongoing actions and communications in that region. So leave it alone, and go buy a dress.

Here is Laing on destroying the ability to see clearly:

In order to rationalize our military-industrial complex, we have to destroy our capacity to see clearly any more what is in front of, and to imagine what is beyond, our noses. Long before a thermonuclear war can come about, we have had to lay waste our own sanity. We begin with the children. It is imperative to catch them in time. Without the most thorough and rapid brainwashing their dirty minds would see through our dirty tricks. Children are not yet fools, but we shall turn them into imbeciles like ourselves, with high I.Q.'s if possible." (quoted in Derrick Jensen's Culture of Make Believe, pp 57-58.)

I don't want to go on ranting about the Iraq horror. My focus here is on how this kind of thing, is allowed, supported and justified. My own writings devote time and energy to exposing the false claims to virtue around the unnecessary, extremely harmful and dangerous practices of biological psychiatry, such as drugging literally millions of our precious children with body-damaging, mind and mood altering psychotropic drugs. How is this allowed and accepted? How do people lose the ability to see and to exercise common sense? Much has been written about our educational system by the likes of John Holt and John Gatto about how schools are designed to create good, obedient workers and soldiers. I share here a perspective I got from poet David Whyte about the derivation of the most important word in the workplace lexicon and in the lexicon of schools. The language is that of "management"—good old behavior management, classroom management, managing children's behavior. Manager comes from the old Italian and French words, maneggio and manege, meaning the training, handling and riding of a horse. So here is a paragraph from David Whyte's book, Crossing the Unknown Sea:

It is strange to think that the whole spirit of management is derived from the image of getting on the back of a beast, digging your knees in, and heading it in a certain direction. The word manager conjures the image of domination, command, and ultimate control, and the taming of a potentially wild energy. It also implies a basic unwillingness on the part of the people to be managed, a force to be corralled and reined in. All appropriate things if you want to ride a horse, but most people don't respond very passionately or creatively to being ridden, and the words giddy up there only go so far in creating the kind of responsible participation we are looking for. (p. 240)

The bad news is management, the good news is inherent wild nature.

The good news is a wild, diverse planet. The bad news is that our "civilization" is the most destructive ever. It score values are two: maximum profit and minimum liability. Its fundamental strategies are two: conquest abroad, suppression at home.  Its basic perception of life is called objectification and exploitation of life. Trees become board feet of lumber, land a resource to "develop," animals are food products, and children are a product market for anything:  electronic games, candy, massive amounts of psychiatric drugs, etcetera.

Conclusion

I offer no ready solution, but I have five directions.

First is to confront the truth, however hard and whatever the price to pay. Such confrontation does not bring hope, more likely hopelessness. It is absolutely necessary, however, to allow for the possibility of going beyond hope and hopelessness to a simple embrace of reality, and event the remotest possibility of real cultural change. If we don't confront the horror of labeling and drugging our children, they go on being labeled and drugged. If we don't confront the tragedy of preemptive warfare and unnecessary killing and destruction, we go on killing and destroying. If we don't face the wrenching grief that goes with destruction and deterioration of this planet's life and biosphere, then we are destroyed.

Second is to hold a vision of what can be. It is important to confront, but it is not enough to only see the horror, or to oppose it. At every level, we must replace false beliefs with true ones, and thoughtless, or despairing visions with those of beauty and reconciliation. As one example, consider my friend Bob Collier's "default visualization," which he developed as his primary asset in "getting around all my mental obstacles" to parenting his daughter.

I imagined my daughter's face, as happy as I could make it, and her posture as it would be if she was having fun. Just that. Like a snapshot. I carried that ‘snapshot' around in my mind all day, every day, until it became so strong it was always the easiest thing for me to think of and always the general ‘blueprint' I was working to.

"Things are not brought into being by thinking about their opposites."

The visualizing, however, was much more haphazard, although it was relatively easy to imagine good things for my daughter. It was imagining good things for myself that was the real struggle, because of my ‘mental blocks' in that respect.

I kept my default visualization in my consciousness, adding details to my general vision or to specific ‘mini-visions' at various times whenever I was capable of doing so, and I steadfastly practiced using words and phrases that supported continuous forward movement in my daughter's development. That was my core strategy throughout all those years. And it worked beautifully.  (Collier, 2003)

In a similar vein, I offer this Universal Declaration of Mental Rights and Freedoms as a wonderful vision.

We hold this truth That all human beings are created different. That every human being has the right to be mentally free and independent. That every human being has the right to feel, see, hear, sense, imagine, believe or experience anything at all, in any way, at any time. That every human being has the right to behave in any way that does not harm others or break fair and just laws.
That no human being shall be subjected without consent to incarceration, restraint, punishment, or psychological or medical intervention in an attempt to control, repress or alter the individual's thoughts, feelings or experiences. (http://adbusters.org/metas/psycho/prozacspotlight/madpridetour/madprideday.html)

Third, we must not only have a vision, but we must know it to be already true. This seems a great contradiction of the notion of confronting the tragedies and horrors, and feeling the pain that goes with facing suffering. Wayne Dyer, however, taught me a lot about this through his books, notably one title, You'll see it when you believe it. Notice how this title playfully turns the popular "I'll believe it when I see it," on its head. Dyer shares the perennial spiritual wisdom, whichteaches us that creation works from the inside out, beginning with an inner idea or vision, which is later brought into physical form. The teaching is that when you really know it is true inside yourself, and when that knowing includes the power of intention whereby you act on this knowing that it is already true in the spirit, then it is just a matter of more or less time before it comes into form.

Fourth, in Gandhi's famous words, "Become the change you want to see." It is necessary but not sufficient to see what is. It is necessary but not sufficient to see what can be. It goes even deeper to know this truth already exists in the spirit. From this place comes our intention, and from this intention flows our action. We become that which we envision, and that which we want to see in others and in the world.  We are speakers of truth, lovers of life, peacemakers, ecologists, people who live from a place of reverence for life. We care for our children and we protect them from harm.

Finally, there remains a different call to action. We not only live the way we want to live, we insist that the world confront its irrationalities and unnecessarily damaging ways of being. We stand up for the future of our children by standing up to present denial and life destroying decisions and behaviors. We refuse to be silent, we refuse to cooperate with a civilization that promotes death over life, money over care and consideration, comfort over truth.  One of my favorite quotes of Martin Luther King is that, "The Salvation of the world lies with the maladjusted." One place I call you to action is to derail this "New Freedom" horror and help defend and protect our children and families from even more unnecessary labeling and drugging. We are very active and strong. We just derailed them in the 2005 Texas legislature, for example, but they are relentless. There is along and honorable tradition of civil disobedience in this country, reflecting the fact that allegiance to truth trumps obedience to irrational and cruel oppression. Join us in refusing to comply with biopsychiatric intrusion into our children's lives. We have truth and deep passion on our side.

Have you ever noticed a great value placed on being nice? Perhaps, like me, you heard from your mother, "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all." Maybe you heard someone tell a child in an effort to shame and control him: "You're behaving like an animal!" Just now, when civilization is on a forced march of damage and destruction, being nice is not appropriate. I suggest replacing this admonition with the following: "Stop acting like a civilized human being!" To paraphrase a line from one of Robbie Robertson's song, "Let's make a noise in this world!"

REFERENCES:

  • Breeding, J. The Wildest Colts Make the Best Horses, Austin, TX: GW & Co., 2002.
  • Breeding, J.  True Nature and Great Misunderstandings: How We Care For Our Children According To Our Understanding. Eakin Press, 2003.
  • Breeding, J.  The Necessity Of Madness And Unproductivity: Psychiatric Oppression Or Human Transformation. Chipmunka Press, 2003.
  • Gatto, J. The Underground History of American Education. NY: Oxford Village Press, 2001, p. 306 (See www.johntaylorgatto.co)
  • Rosenhan, D. L. "On Being Sane In Insane Places." Science, 1973, Vol. 179, p. 250 – 258.

ENDNOTE:

1. See our Declaration of Refusal to Comply